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Nemysl\u00edm t\u00edm, \u017ee by zanedb\u00e1vali jejich pot\u0159eby, ale aby...","datePublished":"2020-09-27","dateModified":"2023-05-01","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.atty.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.atty.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/53fcaa7178df0f37d30678446939b206ab1017330cccbc8c93b5efa33cddcf51?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/53fcaa7178df0f37d30678446939b206ab1017330cccbc8c93b5efa33cddcf51?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"atty.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.atty.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a304480_w2051_t1515570516.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.atty.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a304480_w2051_t1515570516.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.atty.cz\/vychovavat-deti-neni-ostuda\/","about":["Kultura"],"wordCount":706,"articleBody":"V\u00a0dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b se \u0161\u00ed\u0159\u00ed jeden ne\u0161var. Rodi\u010de p\u0159est\u00e1vaj\u00ed vychov\u00e1vat sv\u00e9 d\u011bti. Nemysl\u00edm t\u00edm, \u017ee by zanedb\u00e1vali jejich pot\u0159eby, ale aby sami m\u011bli klid, nenapom\u00ednaj\u00ed je, neu\u010d\u00ed je, jak\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed je spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 a dost \u010dasto je zahrnuj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 drah\u00fdmi v\u011bcmi, jen aby m\u011bli pokoj od jejich \u0161kemr\u00e1n\u00ed.Je v\u00e1m nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e1 n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva restaurace \u010di muzea, kde pob\u00edhaj\u00ed mal\u00e9 d\u011bti a hul\u00e1kaj\u00ed? Tak\u00e9 m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee maj\u00ed hluch\u00e9 rodi\u010de? Nebo vn\u00edm\u00e1te, jak d\u00edt\u011b, sotva \u0161kolou povinn\u00e9, v\u00a0rukou dr\u017e\u00ed drah\u00fd mobil a hraje si, m\u00edsto aby si s\u00a0n\u00edm n\u011bkter\u00fd z\u00a0rodi\u010d\u016f pov\u00eddal? Maminky maj\u00ed pocit, \u017ee pro n\u011b t\u00edm d\u011blaj\u00ed to nejlep\u0161\u00ed. Opak je pravdou. D\u00edt\u011b pot\u0159ebuje usm\u011brnit, samo nev\u00ed, \u017ee d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u011bco \u0161patn\u011b.D\u016fsledn\u00e9 rodi\u010de v\u00fdchova bol\u00ed. Ale opravdu se vyplat\u00ed b\u00fdt t\u00edm vytrvalej\u0161\u00edm. Zn\u00e1m pocit, kdy d\u00edt\u011b ud\u011bl\u00e1 o\u010di, za\u0161kemr\u00e1, aby dos\u00e1hlo sv\u00e9ho, ale jinak to nejde. Je p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9, kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b zn\u00e1 hranice a p\u0159i NE u\u017e v\u00ed, \u017ee \u0161kemrat a p\u0159emlouvat nem\u00e1 cenu. Ale je nutn\u00e9 se p\u0159i n\u00e1cviku v\u00fddr\u017ee ovl\u00e1dat a nezvy\u0161ovat hlas. Pl\u00e1\u010de? Nepovolte!Pozor! Jednou povol\u00edte a u\u017e si to bude pamatovat. Takov\u00fd prcek dok\u00e1\u017ee otravovat t\u0159eba hodinu, dokud se nepodvol\u00edte. U\u017e se v\u00e1m nikdy nepoda\u0159\u00ed ho p\u0159im\u011bt k\u00a0sezen\u00ed u j\u00eddla bez odb\u00edh\u00e1n\u00ed, v\u017edy bude sk\u00e1kat do \u0159e\u010di, proto\u017ee jednou byl vyslechnut, kdy\u017e si m\u00e1ma pov\u00eddala a jemu dala p\u0159ednost, nebo ztrop\u00ed sc\u00e9nu, \u017ee chce hr\u00e1t na mobilu, ne\u017e aby \u0161el ven.\u00a0Sami zapom\u00edn\u00e1me, jak n\u00e1m bylo dob\u0159e, kdy\u017e jsme si mohli sednout s\u00a0n\u011bk\u00fdm dosp\u011bl\u00fdm z\u00a0rodiny a vypr\u00e1v\u011bt mu o kamar\u00e1dech, o \u0161kole nebo o sv\u00fdch d\u011btsk\u00fdch l\u00e1sk\u00e1ch. Doty\u010dn\u00fd n\u00e1s vyslechl, pohladil po hlav\u011b, pousm\u00e1l se a ta slova nebo \u00fasm\u011bv pro n\u00e1s m\u011bly obrovsk\u00fd v\u00fdznam. T\u00f3n hlasu, se kter\u00fdm se s\u00a0n\u00e1mi bavil, prozrazoval, jak moc mu na na\u0161ich d\u011btsk\u00fdch probl\u00e9mech z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed.Vychov\u00e1vat ale tak\u00e9 znamen\u00e1 b\u00fdt vzorem. Kdy\u017e budete j\u00edst \u0161patn\u011b, d\u00edt\u011b se bude \u0161patn\u011b stravovat tak\u00e9. Pokud cel\u00fd den budete u televize, m\u00edsto toho, abyste \u0161li ven, potomek si tento zp\u016fsob \u017eivota osvoj\u00ed tak\u00e9. Budete-li ohrnovat nos nad kn\u00ed\u017ekami, bude d\u011blat tot\u00e9\u017e. Posadit ho k\u00a0po\u010d\u00edta\u010di m\u00edsto hran\u00ed spole\u010densk\u00fdch her mu do \u017eivota tak\u00e9 nic ned\u00e1.\u00a0Bu\u010fte sv\u00fdm d\u011btem spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm vzorem!Neslibujte nic, o \u010dem v\u00edte, \u017ee to nespln\u00edte! Napodob\u00ed v\u00e1s.U\u010dte sv\u00e9 d\u011bti respektovat ostatn\u00ed, samy se to nenau\u010d\u00ed, a \u017ee jsou to jen d\u011bti, je hloup\u00e1 v\u00fdmluva ned\u016fsledn\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f.Trvejte na tom, aby si d\u00edt\u011b ukl\u00edzelo sv\u00e9 hra\u010dky u\u017e od mala, pozd\u011bji vy\u017eadujte pomoc p\u0159i leh\u010d\u00edch dom\u00e1c\u00edch prac\u00edch.\u00a0Pravideln\u011b a nepla\u0165te jim za to. A\u017e budou m\u00edt vlastn\u00ed dom\u00e1cnost, tak jim za jej\u00ed \u00fadr\u017ebu tak\u00e9 nikdo nic ned\u00e1.Uka\u017ete sv\u00e9mu d\u011bcku, \u017ee \u010dten\u00ed knihy nen\u00ed ztr\u00e1tou \u010dasu.\u00a0D\u011bti b\u00fdvaj\u00ed \u010dasto nemocn\u00e9. V\u011bnujte se jim. Pohla\u010fte je, p\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte jim poh\u00e1dku, a\u0165 nemaj\u00ed pocit vy\u0159azenosti z\u00a0rodiny, vypr\u00e1v\u011bjte jim. A\u017e samy dosp\u011bj\u00ed, budou ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b uplat\u0148ovat vzor z\u00a0rodiny. A to nejen u sv\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed. Vzpom\u00ednka na va\u0161e chov\u00e1n\u00ed b\u011bhem jejich d\u011btstv\u00ed jim umo\u017en\u00ed v\u00e1m v\u0161e vr\u00e1tit ve st\u00e1\u0159\u00ed.Nebude jim vadit, \u017ee v\u00e1s mus\u00ed obslou\u017eit, dov\u00e9zt k\u00a0l\u00e9ka\u0159i, nebudete jim na obt\u00ed\u017e. Ud\u011blaj\u00ed to s l\u00e1skou a nebudou \u010dekat, \u017ee jim za to zaplat\u00edte.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.6\/5 - (5 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"VYCHOV\u00c1VAT D\u011aTI NEN\u00cd OSTUDA","item":"https:\/\/www.atty.cz\/vychovavat-deti-neni-ostuda\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]